So don't get mad okay, but no one admits the real reasons. It's almost like being kids again...oh we love each other. Sure that may be true in may cases, maybe even all cases, situations, people in love.
But many oldsters marry due to companionship, finances, or needing a cook and housekeeper. Those are the things that, I bet if you asked before marrying, things would change in a hurry. If one future spouse asked the other, so you still are doing your own cooking right? You're still doing your own cleaning right? You're still doing your own wash and grocery shopping right?
Bet many would back out. I know, I know it should all be shared, but it seems the woman gets a bridal gift of, care taking cleaning, cooking & dishes and doing the wash. The men get car repairs if they're able. So split it, evenly. I know one old woman who married an older man for money. She was sixty-five and he is in his eighties, now close to the other side. Even young kids had a theory on why she married him as she is pretty active. He owns a lot of property property. She will be very secure and to be honest she also had a few properties of her own. I wonder how she obtained it all. Be careful in choosing your spouse. Even Steven.
A last thought. When you marry as an older person, you are also accepting each others lifelong habits-yuck!
But many oldsters marry due to companionship, finances, or needing a cook and housekeeper. Those are the things that, I bet if you asked before marrying, things would change in a hurry. If one future spouse asked the other, so you still are doing your own cooking right? You're still doing your own cleaning right? You're still doing your own wash and grocery shopping right?
Bet many would back out. I know, I know it should all be shared, but it seems the woman gets a bridal gift of, care taking cleaning, cooking & dishes and doing the wash. The men get car repairs if they're able. So split it, evenly. I know one old woman who married an older man for money. She was sixty-five and he is in his eighties, now close to the other side. Even young kids had a theory on why she married him as she is pretty active. He owns a lot of property property. She will be very secure and to be honest she also had a few properties of her own. I wonder how she obtained it all. Be careful in choosing your spouse. Even Steven.
A last thought. When you marry as an older person, you are also accepting each others lifelong habits-yuck!
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