How to Forgive a Cheater/spouse

           Yes, forgive if you can. That's what's best for you if your "special" person who claimed to love you cheated on you. So after you forgive, then move on, married or not.WHY? Because you know that how ever many times they tell you they would never do it again-they will, and you also know it's in the back of your mind to pay it back, one day, some day if you haven't already. You are so good now at keeping your own secret cheat, and you're really such a good person, your spouse/cheater person would also think you would never cheat. But You know you have opportunity, much more that the other one does. You know every time someone flirts with you, you have that chance again, and again, and again. After all you are now at that stage in life where you have that distinguished look, that look that the opposite gender loves. You also know that now at this stage in life you don't have any real obligations, unless you want to, and you probably do as that's the kind of person you are. Yes, forgive, but you never forget do you? So, move on to someone who really appreciates you.