Are You a Nagger? How to Handle it.

     I wish I had a photo for what a nagger looks like, and it isn't most women who are naggers-in my opinion that is.
    To me, nagging is almost like being a busybody. Leave people alone. The world and the lives we live are hard enough. But what do we do with naggers and how do we handle each nag? First a nag at a time. Don't go back into the past and tell who ever it is that "you always nag" because you know the comeback will be, "no I don't."
     Make a list and date each nag. Be prepared and don't waste your words. Save it for a right time. When is that you ask? When you're packing the naggers bags? No, you don't leave...why should you. So before a relationship, let your partner know how much you hate nagging that it will only push you away. So then they agree, you marry and he or she starts nagging. You have to be visual sometimes. Pack a bag, or have an empty one. Leave it by the door and when he or she comes in...watch, they stop dead in their tracks. That's a perfect reminder.
     On another note, let's use humor. Bring up people you know like Liz Taylor or some movie star. You know why she couldn't keep a husband-she nagged them out the door, or you know why so and so died, he nagged her to death, and another one is, I'd be afraid to have kids with you;we'd just have another generation of naggers, after all kids do copy.
    Let that nagging list pile up, tell her or him to write their nags down and you'll get to it when you want to, not when you're being nagged, and if the nagging continues, let the nagger know, well I'll hire someone to do the job as your birthday gift, vacation present, holiday gift, summer get away. Then you accomplish these things-it gets done, nagging stops, and you don't have to spend precious time with a nagger, and last of all when that birthday comes around or that well planned vacation, it's like taking candy from a ...nagger.