Friday, June 5, 2015

Take Pedophile Hasterts Gov't Pension for ABuse

        Since it appears this pervert cannot be sued or locked up, why can't his extra government pension be taken and donated to abuse victims of sexual abuse. He can still receive retirement as in social security, but should not receive a dime or his wife if he has one , in the way of any extra money. He has been paying off someone while working for the government, meaning he is a crook, liar, involved in blackmail and now will get off Scott free?
    NO WAY in HELL should he get away with the rest of his life made easier when he has ruined more than one life I'm sure. HE should be fined, using anything he has saved, any investments such as homes, cars, bank accounts, securities and donate it all to victims of sexual abuse and their families who had to go through with their children's torment, counseling and at least one death.
   Take this bastards money!!!

Thursday, June 4, 2015

Duggar Family Mess, What WOUld You Do or WWJD ?

       It's easy to sit on the outside and say what you would do, what should be done and how you would handle it. Believe me, I am not a bleeding heart.
        As adults who have been child victims of teen age brothers and or male parents, this will be viewed differently. Right there, two views.
       As a mother who has protected the child molesters, another view.
As the teen molester, another view.

     They are all human views. Some much more passionate than others. I have had conversations about this topic with a family member concerning when a person goes to prison for this crime, they have paid the price, therefore making Megan's law, wrong. I on the other hand support Megan's law. The highest rate of a crime repeating itself  is pedophilia.

    If I were to be an outsider looking in as a doctor aka shrink, I believe it could be said Josh was a teen, and steps were taken, but not enough and not soon enough and the fact that it was kept with friends, another mistake, like the cop who now sits in jail for porn etc. As it's now seen on TV the parents try to make it sound as if "well it was just"...as soon as Jim Bob uses just, you know his lack of empathy, lack of walking in his daughters shoes and the other child, is solely to protect his son. It was a juvie record and should have stayed closed. Now that it's out, everyone will look at him like a monster and wonder about his own daughter. I do too.
    His sisters...did they really forgive him or under it all do they hate him. I bet we all want to look more closely at past shows to see how close the now older girls acted with Josh. We all want to go back and get a closer look. Sad.

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Time Warner vs, FIOS Brooklyn NY

        Wow I have never read so much about how bad Time Warner is, also known as TWC. Bay Ridgeites are complaining all over  socail media which is great. It lets others know not to even start with TWC. Fios is getting hands up from everyone. Way to go FIOS !!!

Lifes' Balances and SHOW Me

        Boy have I been gone a while, in a few ways. A couple of days ago someone reminded me of a few very important things . Changes have been coming along anyway, but with changes come new insight into mistakes, some you can take back, some you can't or don't want to. I have learned it's never too late to chnage your mind if early enough in the process and you can go back and undo things. You can change your mind.
      That comes with, if others are involved, speaking to the right people in the right positions. Trust only those you've know for a lifetime or those you really know and really know well. Remember that phrase, "trust your instinct"? Please do. Lately I haven't been trusting mine and every time I have been wrong.
    I live in an area where I'm considered an outsider after raising my kids here, working here, buying a home here, yes still an outsider. I no longer care and haven't for years. Many people here as with everywhere else consider themselves to be Christians and yes, like many I have issues with that. Don't tell me show me. But again, I no longer care. There is one family close to me that has shown me, one. With that, I no longer care.
   It's the season of my life that I have found I need to do the right thing soley for me and one other person. Going back and forth with emotions, chnaging my mind, talking it over and again talking it over with a"right" person, things are now what they should be. I have found the balance in life.

BUY Internet MODEM 80. Stop RENTING from cable co.

   
 I just bought my own modem. Who ever your cable company is charges about ten bucks a month. Sears and other places sells MODEMS for 80-100. they last at least TWO YEARS so in one year you save 40.00 .  The following year 120.Also check other ISP services every once in a while. Many have lower prices. I am noticing that too many people are not happy with Time Warner, but way many people love FIOS. In my area I have had a hard time getting cable and didn't want a dish poking out of my house. Fios wasn't available for years, BUT it is now. I am sceptical with package deals that in small print at the end add, taxes, installation, equipment, service charges etc. All I need is Internet.
    I am on a family members phone plan and have and Antenna for TV. I get all of the main stations, ME TV and a few more, good enough. People, you need a hobby, Get away from paying for television or just buy an antenna. Oh I know, the kids like it-send them outside to play, buy board games, quiz books, checkers, take them to knitting classes, yard sales. Let them go back in time and find some kind of fascinating hobby or interest to invest in now rather than face their own DEPRESSION by sitting in front of TV all day. Let them volunteer in the neighborhood, a nursing home, sweet streets. Now,w go, make changes, I am.