Showing posts with label shame. Show all posts
Showing posts with label shame. Show all posts

Friday, August 30, 2013

3 REASONS PEOPLE YELL !!! W.I.E.

   What does WIE stand for ?
  1.     Wrong-they know they are wrong but refuse to be graceful about it so why not yell=stupidity
  2.     Insecure-about most things. Although they will huff and puff and say that's BS, so why do they remain in a same low paying job when obviously according to them they can do anything, or stay with someone who pulls them down, can't save, maybe depressed too, blame others and of course will tell you how much better their siblings were treated so others only have one perspective. The truth be known, that insecure person has probably cost so much angst in families or has addictions also leading to low self-esteem.  Always easy to blame others.Whew. This insecurity is something.
  3. Embarrassed-   Embarrassed because they know they are wrong, that the other person is right and that the YELLER only has correct information about things that no one else is interested in any more because they have heard the YEllER repeat all of that useless knowledge over and over again to let people know they have some smarts. They have also become boring but friends and some family listen because they are friends and do love them. Maybe they even have some shame,guilt and fear too. Why? Because of the limited ability they have to succeed or think they are limited. People don't try because they are afraid of failure. If you don't try no one can say, you failed. But indeed you did, because you just wouldn't try. Success is a bitch-you have to put yourself out there.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

YEA! Chris Broussard ESPN

       Put your hate away. I am not attacking people who are gay. What I am attacking is the people who are so quick to hate others who have opinions using their rights of FREE SPEECH !
   Look at all of the groups of people who have free speech rights without threats of getting fired and beat up and spit upon. If J.D.HAkes said the same thing about this basketball player would the reaction be the same? I doubt it. Please don't take out of context what Chris Broussard said. He is talking about sin in general.
     He is talking about sin and how much of a braggart people we have become as if all of the things we do wrong are okay and accepted. People brag about cheating on their spouses, having an illegal gun, sneaking into the country, selling drugs, posting sex crimes on face book, killing children. I too wonder why is this all okay? Yes I know it isn't, so where do people get the idea it's okay to shout your wrongdoings to others?
    We need to turn the clock back to a period in time when SHAME meant something. That's an odd word isn't it. How many men sexually abused their kids with wives knowing all along, yet who was the person who was ashamed, the victim. When it comes to sexual crimes, even today, it is the victim who is made to feel the shame. So within that is it a male vs. female double standard thing? Yes, without a doubt. It's also power, adult verses child and victim.
    Now we come back to the times we live in today. We don't bother with our neighbors, too busy. We won't help unless it involves money (not true of everyone I know) Social media has become our best friend, and so it's very easy to attack from our computers, twitter, face book and iphones. That's called social cowardism. Free Speech is meant for everyone, not just the side you take, and the person you agree with. Have a nice face book day.