He was only 32 !

    I know, what about old people, so take from this what you can and use it.
This morning I notice a picture of a young man. He was 32, jumped off his home in Brooklyn NY. But he was just thirty- two !  The possibility of anyone doing anything for him is slim at the time, but who knows. His family did say he was having a hard time again lately.
   If someone wants to help a person with depression do this:

• Give them your phone number
• buy them a headset
• talk to them about doctors & meds ( have they missed doses? )
• see if they have family, family that is still family
• ask about hobbies and give
• see what you can do or others, like buy a months of bus passes
• check out a local Mental Health Association
• find out if they go to church
• ask about education, books, vacations, journals, music
• see if they like to garden and get a few garden boxes/containers
•  ask if they are allowed to have a pet if they rent
• be a friend

We lose too many young people because of mental health problems, loneliness, drug and alcohol abuses and I know we all do our best . As adults many will do as they're going to do anyway, so do what you can do.Maybe one day you will be that one person to change a life.

Famous Judge, Her son and the Media

       First, The Media SUCKS BIG TIME!!! Why even mention Judge Judy? I say it now as it's already out, but notice I didn't use it as a heading in my post. The media tries to tie in all kinds of crap. Basically the story is this guy roomed with another guy, and a sheriff suggests a lot of help is being given to the alleged rapist who supposedly raped a twelve year old. She is now 15 and just bringing charges.
     People want to know why now. I'll tell you why now, because at twelve years old a kid is afraid and I'm surprised she has what it takes now to do this. You know how many years it takes victims of all kids of abuse to talk? Do you, idiots who ask why so long?
     The judge doesn't have anything to do with this and it appears. I say appears the sheriff has it in for her son-yet who really knows. Two men shared a home and that is the key to this whole nasty story. People are throwing stone who are jealous or have nothing better to do.
   The Media who sucks is focusing more on the relationship/friendship of the two men rather than the victim. Shame on them! One guy helps another out by offering him a place to live, families knew each other for years, but you and I both know, you never really know anyone. No one knows yet if this guy raped this girl, just him and the girl. So Media pricks, stay focused on the case, the child, the alleged rapist. All that other crap can be addressed at a later time or do you have nothing better to do.

Famous Judge, Her son and the Media

       First, The Media SUCKS BIG TIME!!! Why even mention Judge Judy? I say it now as it's already out, but notice I didn't use it as a heading in my post. The media tries to tie in all kinds of crap. Basically the story is this guy roomed with another guy, and a sheriff suggests a lot of help is being given to the alleged rapist who supposedly raped a twelve year old. She is now 15 and just bringing charges.
     People want to know why now. I'll tell you why now, because at twelve years old a kid is afraid and I'm surprised she has what it takes now to do this. You know how many years it takes victims of all kids of abuse to talk? Do you, idiots who ask why so long?
     The judge doesn't have anything to do with this and it appears. I say appears the sheriff has it in for her son-yet who really knows. Two men shared a home and that is the key to this whole nasty story. People are throwing stone who are jealous or have nothing better to do.
   The Media who sucks is focusing more on the relationship/friendship of the two men rather than the victim. Shame on them! One guy helps another out by offering him a place to live, families knew each other for years, but you and I both know, you never really know anyone. No one knows yet if this guy raped this girl, just him and the girl. So Media pricks, stay focused on the case, the child, the alleged rapist. All that other crap can be addressed at a later time or do you have nothing better to do.

Famous Judge, Her son and the Media

       First, The Media SUCKS BIG TIME!!! Why even mention Judge Judy? I say it now as it's already out, but notice I didn't use it as a heading in my post. The media tries to tie in all kinds of crap. Basically the story is this guy roomed with another guy, and a sheriff suggests a lot of help is being given to the alleged rapist who supposedly raped a twelve year old. She is now 15 and just bringing charges.
     People want to know why now. I'll tell you why now, because at twelve years old a kid is afraid and I'm surprised she has what it takes now to do this. You know how many years it takes victims of all kids of abuse to talk? Do you idiots who ask why so long?
     The judge doesn't have anything to do with this and it appears. I say appears the sheriff has it in for her son-yet who really knows. Two men shared a home and that is the key to this whole nasty story. People are throwing stone who are jealous or have nothing better to do.
   The Media who sucks is focusing more on the relationship/friendship of the two men rather than the victim. Shame on them! One guy helps another out by offering him a place to live, families knew each other for years, but you and I both know, you never really know anyone. No one knows yet if this guy raped this girl, just him and the girl. So Media pricks, stay focused on the case, the child, the alleged rapist. All that other crap can be addressed at a later time or do you have nothing better to do.

Hardway or The Highway

       At what point does it hit you that your family is just freeloading? Well this isn't just about that but when I saw how these freaking freeloaders think they're entitled to lay claim to other peoples homes while they're away or a home is empty....well what kind of bull---- is that?
      They claim religion, entitlement, homesteading ! Send in Judge Judy !!!
These are not people who are taking advantage of an opportunity like you and I would, these are just people who take. When you and I see an opportunity, we usually pay in some way. These free loaders wants us to pay !
      Look at people who are homeless but have cell phones. I've seen them! One guy sat and just smiled as he asked for money while he was on the phone. If I had the nerve I would have leaned over and taken some of that donated money to send to St. Judes. These people are parasites. So glad I heard that word again because that's all they are.
      Let the government dress them up and send them to Afghanistan. They won't be homeless anymore and maybe become human. Okay get off your high horse, I'm not talking about the true homeless, people who really suffer, people who feel shame about losing their lives to the streets, shelters, cars and where the economy has destroyed families.
     Those poor people deserve a helping hand, because they at one time and maybe are still trying to live like decent people. Now take a look at your own family. Do you have a brother or sister who just hangs out all the time, finally moves in, no job, watches TV all day, eats everything is sight, doesn't help around the house or outside. Here is my advice:
      Before you address them, make sure you can go through with it. Make a list of what they have to do in order to live free in your home if you don't want your blood pressure to go up including getting a job and have a timetable to move. Also find out about shelters in your areas or other areas. Be prepared!
     After you talk to your advantage taking person and give a time limit too, and they do nothing, pack them up and drive them to a shelter. Get ready to have your locks changed. They won't leave? Check the law. You might have to give a legal eviction notice. See what you get for helping.
         Sorry about that. I do believe in helping all you can, but not in others helping themselves while you work, cook, take care of the kids, pay bills and do what most good people do. So make it, the hard way or the highway. Then you'll have peace.Maggieshelpcenter.com