Some time ago I looked on line for a carpenter to make a bed for a young boy. He has a web site, but no longer did any special work. On his site he has a list of old-fashioned tools and a few things he made in the past which brought me back to some carpenters I knew as a kid. They were Norwegian.
We all have our special cultural connections, and this is not to stereo-type but come on now. We know if we want a great slice of Pizza we go to New york to an Italian Pizzeria. I don't care where Pizza originated from, New York Pizza is best.
I knew this older man and loved to watch him make repairs. He worked in my aunts house sometimes and would wear faded overalls, a white tee shirt, boots and a cap. His hammer hung from that little piece of jean material, like carpenters jeans today and he always had a pencil in his ear. His name was Hansen. I know it sounds like a last name but we were told it was his first name.
Hansen would stop working when he saw us kids come around and talk about his latest project, a special bookcase bed for a seven year-old. We also learned the seven year old used a wheelchair. That little boy Arnie lived next to my aunt. My aunt let Hansen use her house and basement to do the work while Arnie's parents worked during the day. I also learned Hansen was making this for just about nothing. He knew the people had a lot of bills with Arnie in his wheelchair, so he accepted lunch on Saturdays and very little pay. Hansen went to the carpenters union to get scraps.
Those guys were mostly all Norwegians and knew what Hansen was doing
for that little boy and his family. So to even say scraps is stretching the truth.
Hansen loved teak wood and it was Spring, so he drew pictures. He drew so many pictures about the bed, how Arnie would get in and out, how he would reach the books, a special hidden drawer for just Arnie. It was almost time to start work, putting it together.
So now he has his drawings, fingers worn from refining his pictures, pencils broken and a spot of hair on the right side of his head shorter than the rest from scratching and his load of wood. He now needed screws which were expensive, not just any screws but wooden screws. He wouldn't use too many because he was going to dovetail as many sides, tops and bottoms as possible. He had wood glue, sand paper and was almost ready to start when he realized something was missing, but what?
Snap! He snapped his fingers remembering. He needed two saw horses. The set he had just wouldn't do as he wanted everything level and perfect. As us kids watched him pace we asked, Hansen, what is it? What's wrong? He turned and said kids, you vant to help right? Can you get me more vood? Ask your parents if they have an old table yah? Hansen thought he could make two saw horses from a couple of tables. Soon a couple of dads were hauling some old battered and weathered picnic tables to Hansen. Apologizing, they said, Hansen this is the best we could do!
Oh yah, yah, dis vill vork very vell, tank you, tank you everyone!
The men with Hansen pulled apart legs and strips of wood and then put it together to form two saw horses. After careful measurements Hansen said, ahh Dis is perfect, yah? The grown-ups and kids at once yelled, yah!!! Hansen said vell, it is getting dark now, I vill start early tomorrow. Saturday morning is a goot time to begin. I vill have fresh coffee and a crumb bun.
Saturday moring came and Hansen showed up coffee in hand but no crumb bun. One of the grown-up said Hi Hansen,what no buns? Hansen said, vell, vell they were all gone ven I get there yah? Maybe Monday. In the next few seconds about fifteen neighbors showed up with boxes of crumb buns. A few women had big coffee Thermos's with cups, cream, and saucers.
Some of the men stayed to help if needed and everyone else went home. Hansen started with the headboard. With crafty and educated hands he measured twice, cut once, did the dovetails, prepared the secret drawer. That drawer would hold many wishes over the next years as Arnie grew up. All it took to open it was first knowing it was there and that secret was between Hansen and Arnie., and how to open it. Shh, I can't tell.
Hansen made the bookshelf in the headboard and added a lip so it would hold the books in. He added the same shelf at the foot board, but adding it on the outside end. That way Arnie could reach a book from both ends, while in or out of bed. He took out his chisel, a smaller one at first. Just before starting he drew dovetail lines. Then he made the side rails, added opposite dovetails joints. He connected the side rails and head and foot boards adding a small amount of glue before pressing all of the joints together.
Then he sanded again. He sanded all of the pieces first, and now again. Now once more he took out his chisel, drew and carved, and carved some more at the bottom of the foot board. Cutting a scrap of sandpaper he sanded the small chisel openings. Hansen made a special drawer to slide under the bed. Arnies' mom and dad had little space. This drawer was made so Arnie could pull on a string and it would come out and pop up.
While it was close to being finished he knew he needed more time, a day or two and Hansen didn't work on Sundays.
Hansen and two men carefully loaded it into my aunts basement until Monday. Well Monday came, but so did sadness. Brooklyn had an unusual storm, and my aunts basement became flooded, a wall of bricks came down and Arnie's bed was smashed beyond repair. Hansen's face was a look of devastation. The two men behind him couldn't believe what happened. Softly one neighbor asked, Hansen, what now? Hansen grinned and said vell, vat do ya tink? I make another one, yah? Right away he called the Norwegian Carpenters, and before he knew it, a truck pulled up and men jumped out with more than enough in supplies.
The block was alive buzzing with the news of Hansen's devotion to make Arnie's special bed. Arnie's mom and dad went to work, and Arnie was at school, also saddened by what happened, but they never saw the truck arrive or the response on the block.
More neighbors, coffee and crumb buns, tools, stain, screws, sandpaper, saw horses, levels, wood glue and chisels, and hands. More hands that could ever be needed for one bed. But now it was about friendship and neighbors, and love for a little boy and his special need. Hansen wanted it finished by that night, so now he asked for anyone who worked with tools to do what they could and he needed fans.
It looked like a movie was being made on that street. My aunts house became a lunch counter, restroom, and break room. Men were busy hammering, sanding, making dovetails, leveling and measuring twice, cutting once.
There were two things for just Hansen to do. He was to do the secret drawer and that other something at the bottom of the bed. Out he took his chisels and pencils. He started to draw his special project. The whole bed was stained and fans were fanning it dry to be ready when the family came home that night.
The beautiful teak wood glistened in the early evening sun and just as Hansen finished the last of his chiseling and sanding, a van, then a car pulled up.
The block filled with onlookers. It was a picture of men in overalls, hammers, all kinds of tools, empty coffee cups, dreary eyes and slumped shoulders. Ladies were wiping their eyes and men were wiping sweat. Women were sewing a bedspread and curtains, finishing that up too. These families were hands full of worn life lines, creases of knowledge lined foreheads, hands calloused and backs bent, yet, yet they lived. They lived to show one little boy named Arnie that he was loved just as much as anyone, and had as much to offer in life as anyone else did.
Arnie's mom and dad cried as they looked at the bed, at everyone who stood before them clapping, hugging and crying. Arnie with tears in his eyes saw the bottom of the bed. In it was carved, ARNIE. Then he was shown his secret Drawer. Arnie asked for a piece of paper, sat and wrote a letter to himself, a first wish. Before he put it in his drawer he asked Hansen to read it to everyone and said, this is the only wish you all get to know. That paper read like this:
When I grow up I want to be a carpenter !
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Norwegian Plaid Bag 17 x 19 Red, Blue and White Check
This is a drawstring bag with ties made of the same material. I love plaids and will be making more this coming week. Since this is also a plaid blog I will be making plaids in the colors of tartans. This bag is lined in muslin and all triple stitched at a cost of 14.95 plush 2.50 S&H I try to keep shipping the same for everything no matter what, and have a doozybags site. In addition I am on artfire.com as Doozybags and Viking328-the 328 comes from my first address in Brooklyn when the Norwegian ladies used to visit.
I hope you enjoy my bags and look to purchase one, or two because they are made in America first, quality made and some what culturally .
I hope you enjoy my bags and look to purchase one, or two because they are made in America first, quality made and some what culturally .
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Saturday, November 5, 2011
Norwegian Sweaters
Those colors, nothing like them! When I was little I used to pray for a Norwegian Sweater. My mother was Norwegian, and I went to a church with a lot of Norwegians. They had a ladies club, appropriately called, The Norwegian ladies club. I am half Norwegian, always only wanting to claim that side of me, but to admit the truth, I am also part Scottish and English which makes me Norwegianplaid:) Now back to the story of my sweater, that ugly one, made just for me.
My mother could knit and crochet and I asked year after year for a pretty sweater like the kind I saw men and women wear as a kid. They were in deep reds, shade of blues and white. Oh I loved them. When we had May 17th, That Norwegian parade day...well all you could see were thousands of beautiful Norwegian sweaters. They stood out like a brand new car.
One year I noticed my mother sitting on the stoop with Lisa Ingebretson who married a friend of my brother. Lisa, although much younger became friends with my mother. They spoke Norwegian and Lisa's husband didn't know much so Lisa could confide in my mother and boy did she. My mother always told us later what was said. So Lisa and my mother sat on the stoop many nights in Brooklyn at our old Brownstone knitting and or crocheting. They had long needles and wool in bags. Yakking and yakking, knitting and knitting, they would sit for hours. So one night I noticed the sweater Lisa was making. I saw the red, navy blue and white contrasts peeking from her bag. I remember yelling, Lisa! Lisa! That's the kind I want. Lisa smiled. She was so sweet, with her small blue eyes and seemed to get thinner each time we saw her-and we knew why, and hoped for the day she'd become single again. But I hoped that of my mother too for very good reasons.
Lisa, friend that she was said, well maybe your mother would make you one for Christmas. I know I jumped and asked her, would ya mom, huh? She acted like I was butting in, shushed me and said not now, later. Well later came a few weeks later and I asked her again. She said I'll think about it and I added, oh thank you but not gray, I hate gray. Red okay? With Blue in it, my favorite color...and she knew that I loved blue.
Some time after that she and Lisa were at it again on the Brownstone stoop. Now my mother had a bag I didn't see before. I asked like kids do around Christmas-is that my sweater? It's not gray right, I hate gray. Lisa laughed and said I don't think your mother would make you a gray sweater, but yes she did just that.
Why? I never knew why. Christmas came and she handed me the bag telling me she didn't have time to wrap it up. I didn't care. I was so happy to finally get my sweater. Then as I slowly pulled it from the bag I knew disappointment was written all over my face. I was twenty-one and will never forget that Christmas.
My mother said son-of a b.... you don't like it do you? I did my damnest to make you that and that's the thanks I get. My face was red and warm as I answered, but I do like it, lying through my teeth. She knew and so did I as she said well I'll give it to someone else. I said again-no I like it, I really do. She finally did something for me and I wanted to keep it. When I thought it couldn't get worse she said try it on. Oh crap!
I put it on and oh Lordy, it was the itchiest thing I ever wore and started scratching. Hands on her hips she asked, what the hell is wrong now and I answered just as fast, it's itchy. She cursed. I said I'll just put it in Woolite tomorrow to soften it. She cursed again, mumbled, I can't do nothing right, son of a b----ing kids. Wow and this was Christmas? So the following year I left home, moved in with my sister and left the sweater with her. Yes, my mother found it, showed me and said, so you really like it huh?
A few years later I was married and had a son. Guess what my mother did. She made him a sweater-gray.
I'm still looking:)
My mother could knit and crochet and I asked year after year for a pretty sweater like the kind I saw men and women wear as a kid. They were in deep reds, shade of blues and white. Oh I loved them. When we had May 17th, That Norwegian parade day...well all you could see were thousands of beautiful Norwegian sweaters. They stood out like a brand new car.
One year I noticed my mother sitting on the stoop with Lisa Ingebretson who married a friend of my brother. Lisa, although much younger became friends with my mother. They spoke Norwegian and Lisa's husband didn't know much so Lisa could confide in my mother and boy did she. My mother always told us later what was said. So Lisa and my mother sat on the stoop many nights in Brooklyn at our old Brownstone knitting and or crocheting. They had long needles and wool in bags. Yakking and yakking, knitting and knitting, they would sit for hours. So one night I noticed the sweater Lisa was making. I saw the red, navy blue and white contrasts peeking from her bag. I remember yelling, Lisa! Lisa! That's the kind I want. Lisa smiled. She was so sweet, with her small blue eyes and seemed to get thinner each time we saw her-and we knew why, and hoped for the day she'd become single again. But I hoped that of my mother too for very good reasons.
Lisa, friend that she was said, well maybe your mother would make you one for Christmas. I know I jumped and asked her, would ya mom, huh? She acted like I was butting in, shushed me and said not now, later. Well later came a few weeks later and I asked her again. She said I'll think about it and I added, oh thank you but not gray, I hate gray. Red okay? With Blue in it, my favorite color...and she knew that I loved blue.
Some time after that she and Lisa were at it again on the Brownstone stoop. Now my mother had a bag I didn't see before. I asked like kids do around Christmas-is that my sweater? It's not gray right, I hate gray. Lisa laughed and said I don't think your mother would make you a gray sweater, but yes she did just that.
Why? I never knew why. Christmas came and she handed me the bag telling me she didn't have time to wrap it up. I didn't care. I was so happy to finally get my sweater. Then as I slowly pulled it from the bag I knew disappointment was written all over my face. I was twenty-one and will never forget that Christmas.
My mother said son-of a b.... you don't like it do you? I did my damnest to make you that and that's the thanks I get. My face was red and warm as I answered, but I do like it, lying through my teeth. She knew and so did I as she said well I'll give it to someone else. I said again-no I like it, I really do. She finally did something for me and I wanted to keep it. When I thought it couldn't get worse she said try it on. Oh crap!
I put it on and oh Lordy, it was the itchiest thing I ever wore and started scratching. Hands on her hips she asked, what the hell is wrong now and I answered just as fast, it's itchy. She cursed. I said I'll just put it in Woolite tomorrow to soften it. She cursed again, mumbled, I can't do nothing right, son of a b----ing kids. Wow and this was Christmas? So the following year I left home, moved in with my sister and left the sweater with her. Yes, my mother found it, showed me and said, so you really like it huh?
A few years later I was married and had a son. Guess what my mother did. She made him a sweater-gray.
I'm still looking:)
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Thursday, November 3, 2011
May 17 and Brooklyn Norwegians
It isn't the same, not anymore. Okay most things aren't the way they were, but why, why does it have to change so drastically and not for the better. This is a Norwegian day, for squareheads, our nickname. The last time I went to a parade in Brooklyn for May 17, it looked more like the United Nations, but so does Brooklyn. It felt sad. Yet inspite of it all, I was still happy to be part of it, if only an observer.
The best part was my daughter Jenny and I, with her friend all went to a local bar filled with Norwegians. I felt right at home. No, not because I was in a bar, although...but because I was surrounded by squareheads in those wonderful sweaters, the Norwegian dress, flags and even accents. I will make sure to continue this blog, and not stay away again for such a long time, after all, I am a Norwegian.
The best part was my daughter Jenny and I, with her friend all went to a local bar filled with Norwegians. I felt right at home. No, not because I was in a bar, although...but because I was surrounded by squareheads in those wonderful sweaters, the Norwegian dress, flags and even accents. I will make sure to continue this blog, and not stay away again for such a long time, after all, I am a Norwegian.
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Solving Temper Tantrums
Feeling good to be back blogging and one of my favorite subjects are/is kids. I know a little boy who lives with someone who constantly throws tantrums. Yes he has an illness, and the woman he lives with has learned a lot about his illness, but not enough about his control issues until today.
What she did today was something she did a while ago with another child who cursed her out, threw tantrums, kicked the floor all at just eight years old. With a teen sitting at her side, he said let me handle him. Of course that was a no. What she learned then was purely by impulse. Since this little guy didn't have any respect for her and her property it was time to turn that around. This little kid came to her with barely any property, but one day she had a humongous birthday party like it was Christmas, so now he had a lot of his very own property. Taking toys away only works for the moment.
While he sat on the floor calling her an F and B the teen again said oh please let me at em'. This kid then pushed and kicked at her chair, and then she got up, went to his room, and grabbed his Thomas the Train set which she just bought him, went to the side door, opened it and whoosh, threw it out into the yard. He screamed, cried and pleaded. At first she was surprised at his reaction, but something else set in. He was afraid of bees which she didn't know, but that wouldn't have stopped her as he could always get his toys later in the early evening. He came in crying, and calling her more names. She went to his room, took a puzzle this time, out the door. Yes it sounds cruel, but after the second piece of property went flying out the door, there weren't any more incidents of disrespect which brings me to today.
This other child at twelve has tantrums too, worse than any she ever experienced and no one, not one person could tell her how to control him. That old memory came into play and she warned him, loud and clear. He became worse as he always does when behavior is mentioned, yelling no you can't do that! Hah, but you can? Out the door went a box of something he loves and as it opened and a few pieces flew into the air, he sat in the yard crying and angry. He came in and asked to move.
Within a minute he started to tantrum again when she went to his room and he immediately stopped. Giving him instructions about visitors which usually brings on a tantrum, banging furniture, yelling and fake crying for almost two hours at a time and less, she told him she doesn't care who is here. If he shows dis-respect, has a tantrum-out his toys will go and they will be bigger than today. His answer? A quiet okay. I'm sure my friend knows this will take a few more tosses as he's been doing this for almost nine years, and while it isn't meant for every child, it is working for him along with other changes. Time, patience and a few drinks.
What she did today was something she did a while ago with another child who cursed her out, threw tantrums, kicked the floor all at just eight years old. With a teen sitting at her side, he said let me handle him. Of course that was a no. What she learned then was purely by impulse. Since this little guy didn't have any respect for her and her property it was time to turn that around. This little kid came to her with barely any property, but one day she had a humongous birthday party like it was Christmas, so now he had a lot of his very own property. Taking toys away only works for the moment.
While he sat on the floor calling her an F and B the teen again said oh please let me at em'. This kid then pushed and kicked at her chair, and then she got up, went to his room, and grabbed his Thomas the Train set which she just bought him, went to the side door, opened it and whoosh, threw it out into the yard. He screamed, cried and pleaded. At first she was surprised at his reaction, but something else set in. He was afraid of bees which she didn't know, but that wouldn't have stopped her as he could always get his toys later in the early evening. He came in crying, and calling her more names. She went to his room, took a puzzle this time, out the door. Yes it sounds cruel, but after the second piece of property went flying out the door, there weren't any more incidents of disrespect which brings me to today.
This other child at twelve has tantrums too, worse than any she ever experienced and no one, not one person could tell her how to control him. That old memory came into play and she warned him, loud and clear. He became worse as he always does when behavior is mentioned, yelling no you can't do that! Hah, but you can? Out the door went a box of something he loves and as it opened and a few pieces flew into the air, he sat in the yard crying and angry. He came in and asked to move.
Within a minute he started to tantrum again when she went to his room and he immediately stopped. Giving him instructions about visitors which usually brings on a tantrum, banging furniture, yelling and fake crying for almost two hours at a time and less, she told him she doesn't care who is here. If he shows dis-respect, has a tantrum-out his toys will go and they will be bigger than today. His answer? A quiet okay. I'm sure my friend knows this will take a few more tosses as he's been doing this for almost nine years, and while it isn't meant for every child, it is working for him along with other changes. Time, patience and a few drinks.
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